The Farewell (2019) the story of a Chinese grandmother whose family won’t tell h

The Farewell (2019) the story of a Chinese grandmother whose family won’t tell her that she is fatally ill. Instead, they organize a fake wedding in China, where everyone gets together to bid a farewell to the unwitting matriarch. The fake wedding is, in fact, a premature funeral for a person unaware that she is going to die.
The cultural clash between American individualism and Chinese collectivism is prevalent in The Farewell. Describe the reasoning behind Billi’s individualistic side and the extended family’s collectivistic side related to Nai Nai’s diagnosis and the subsequent celebration. Which side (if any) do you think was in the right? Should American families consider adopting the more collective mindset of Chinese families?